//About

About Dr. Tim

Licensed Psychologist & Licensed Therapist

If anxiety is quietly running your life—affecting your sleep, your focus, or your closest relationships—you’re not alone, and it doesn’t have to stay that way. My work helps individuals and couples in Dublin, Pleasanton, San Ramon, Livermore, Castro Valley, Danville, and the greater Tri-Valley area get to the root of what’s driving the stress, so real change becomes possible.


For couples, I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a research-backed approach that moves you beyond surface conflict and into a more secure, connected bond. Rather than just improving communication, we work on the emotional patterns underneath the distance, reactivity, and disconnection between you.


I also offer executive coaching for high-performers navigating the pressure of demanding careers—helping you build resilience and clarity without burning out. Over 15+ years, I’ve worked with people from all walks of life. My approach is structured and grounded in real, lasting change—so you don’t just talk about the problems, you begin to experience yourself and each other differently.

//Areas of Focus

Support tailored to the challenges you’re facing

Couples Therapy

Rebuild connection, improve communication, and move out of repeated conflict cycles using Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Relationship Conflict

Understand the patterns behind arguments and learn how to respond in ways that reduce tension and build trust.

Career Stress & Relationships

Address how work pressure impacts your relationship and find healthier ways to balance both without losing connection.

Emotional Disconnection

Reconnect when things feel distant, cold, or routine, and create a stronger emotional bond.

Anxiety & Overwhelm

Learn to manage anxiety and emotional stress that affects your thoughts, reactions, and relationships.

Communication Challenges

Move beyond surface-level communication and express needs in a way that leads to understanding and connection.

//Clinical Approach

A clear, structured path to real change

My approach focuses on helping you understand what’s happening beneath the surface—so change feels natural, not forced. We work together to shift patterns, rebuild connection, and create lasting emotional safety.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

EFT helps you understand the emotional patterns behind conflict. Instead of staying stuck in arguments, we focus on the deeper needs and reactions driving those moments, helping you reconnect in a more secure way.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT provides practical tools to manage anxious thoughts, stress, and reactive behaviors. It helps you respond more calmly and clearly in challenging situations.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

We use EMDR to help you process the experiences driving those intense emotions at their source, so instead of feeling hijacked by stress, anxiety, or old wounds, you can stay grounded and respond with clarity.

Attachment-Based Work

We explore how past experiences shape how you connect, communicate, and respond in relationships—so you can create healthier, more secure patterns moving forward.

//Professional Journey

Experience shaped by real-world clinical work

Over the past 15+ years, I’ve worked in federally qualified health centers, outpatient clinics, nonprofit organizations, and college campuses—supporting individuals and couples from a wide range of backgrounds.

While my early work included diverse populations, my focus today is on helping professionals navigate the impact of high-pressure careers on their relationships and emotional well-being.

In addition to my clinical work, I hold a leadership role in higher education, where I build systems, support graduate students, and oversee academic programs. I’ve also worked within integrated behavioral health teams, managing clinical operations and supporting providers in high-demand environments.

These experiences give me a practical understanding of stress, leadership demands, and the challenges that often show up both at work and at home.


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//Credentials & Certifications

Training grounded in proven, evidence-based methods

My work is supported by advanced clinical training and certifications in leading therapeutic approaches. This allows me to provide structured, effective care tailored to each individual and couple I work with.

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//What Clients Experience

Real change you can feel in your relationship and daily life

Stronger Communication

Conversations become calmer, clearer, and more productive without turning into the same repeated arguments.

Rebuilt Trust

Partners begin to feel safer opening up, rebuilding trust through consistent, meaningful interactions.

Reduced Conflict Cycles

You learn to recognize and step out of negative patterns instead of repeating them.

Emotional Connection

A deeper sense of closeness, understanding, and support starts to return.

Better Stress Management

You feel more grounded and less reactive, even during high-pressure situations.

Increased Self-Awareness

You gain clarity about your emotions, reactions, and relationship patterns.

//Don’t Wait Until It Gets Worse

Small changes now can completely shift your relationship

Most people wait too long before getting support. If you’re noticing anxiety, distance, conflict, or emotional disconnection, this is the right time to take action.

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